Friday, December 19, 2008

Thursday, December 18, 2008

For Wednesday

Friendship is powerful. All the cliches about it are true: True friends are with you through the good times and the bad times. Friends are the family that you choose. A lifetime's not too long to live as friends... I am blessed to have many good friends and to have sustained friendships over the years.

I got a call tonight from one of those friends. We met on the first day of kindergarten. The Redhead and I bonded instantly over the homemade playdough that Mrs. Kovacs had put out to help us transition into school and have been friends since. I cannot imagine my childhood without her. We even managed to stay friends through the ugliness of junior high (where she forgave me for a LOT) and the transition of high school and college. She lives all the way across the country now and we don't talk on a regular basis, but we stayed on the phone for 2 hours last night and gossiped like we were 12 again. Distance has not dimmed our friendship. She knows me better than anyone and still loves me.

In junior high, we became fans of "Anne of Green Gables" thanks to our rather flamboyant English teacher. In those books, Anne, the orphan, is overjoyed to find a "bosom friend" in Diana. We always laughed at the language Anne used, but, even at that tender age, understood her sentiment. I understand it even better now. It is a joy to have a bosom friend. I am very thankful for mine.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Alegria

Today is my birthday. I spent it doing (mostly) things I wanted to do. I got messages from and got to talk to a lot of friends and family. The Attorney gave me some beautiful yellow roses.

My celebration culminated in dinner with friends at a local Tex Mex joint. We tried to go to our regular place, but it was closed for the staff to have their holiday party, so we went up the street to a different place. I knew the evening would be fun because the group of people I invited are fun people. I did not expect 2 visitors from Mexico, a book of Mad Libs, a board game called "Crazy Cat Lady" and a pinata. Yes, you read that right. The Polyglot (who happens to share my birthday) brought his 2 Mexican house guests and a pinata to the restaurant. He brought it in hanging from a stick and presented it with a flourish. It was awesome. It was even more awesome after drinks and chips and salsa in the bar, dinner and fun conversation and a group Mad Lib to go out on the restaurant's patio to break the pinata. In 30 degree weather, wearing a rather special blindfold. I managed to make some candy come out and the Polyglot took care of the rest. The other diners inside were very jealous I could tell!

The Attorney and I then sped over to a new cupcake place close to our house for a birthday treat. We got there just as they were closing and when I told them it was my birthday, they gave us 6 free cupcakes! And, they got a candle, lit it and sang "Happy Birthday" to me! All they asked was that we come back. We will. (And the cupcakes are REALLY good!)

When we got home, we took the Dog for a walk around the block. She was so happy to go that even though it was cold, I was glad that I took her.

The best word to describe tonight is joyful. Or in espanol - alegria. I know it's not exactly like the joy that came to us when Christ was born, but I do think it is a little taste of it. I don't think we have to wait until we get to heaven to experience joy. God gives us moments like tonight as an appetizer.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Joy to the World

The Preacher's Wife remake starring Whitney Houston came out when I lived in Memphis. And one of my best friends at the time was obsessed with Whitney, so of course we went to see it on opening night. It's a fine holiday flick with, not surprisingly, really good music. Whitney is the title character and in her role as preacher's wife she leads the music in their church. One of the songs is a knock out version of "Joy to the World." J and I danced in our seats while watching the movie the first time, and every time I hear it now, I dance wherever I am. It is truly joyous.

I couldn't find the scene from the movie on Youtube, but I did find this medley performed by Whitney and a choir at some awards show. The first song is nice and classic Whitney. "Joy to the World" starts about half way through. Listen and see if you aren't motivated to dance a little bit, too!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Peace and Joy

Another busy weekend with little time for blogging. Like last weekend, however, I did take time to reflect even though I was busy. Here are my thoughts:

The After Party
Friday night we had our annual Christmas party. We used to call it our Sunday School class party, but it has extended beyond that core group to include other friends, so now I think of it as just our party. I spent most of the day Friday preparing - cleaning, cooking, burning CDs - and when our guests arrived I was busy hostessing, doing more cooking and having a good time. Our house probably isn't big enough to host this kind of shindig (especially with 3 very excited children running around), but I love doing it. I love having my extended family around me, sharing good food and laughs. This group of people is my family here and it wouldn't be Christmas without spending this time with them.

Inevitably, the party must end and then comes the task of cleaning up. Strangely, I enjoy this part of the tradition as well. The Attorney and I have a really good routine when it comes to this. Even though we're tired, we know we won't want to wake up to a mess in the morning, so we work together to get our house back in order. After almost 10 years of marriage, we fall into a peaceful rhythm. We don't really talk much, just do our "assigned" tasks until our house is back to normal (actually a little cleaner than normal!) and we can take a few minutes to revel in this before heading off to bed.

These traditions are part of the ebb and flow of my year. I'm thankful to have them and to find peace in their return and passing.

Dancing for Joy
For the last several years, our church has produced a Christmas pageant (for lack of a better word). It's sort of a cross between a living nativity and a posada, a Mexican tradition of traveling from house to house looking for the baby Jesus. Groups travel around the outside of our church and the different characters involved tell the Christmas story. Some scenes are serious, some are touched with humor and others lean toward the absurd. Not surprisingly, the Attorney and I are usually involved in the absurd scenes. We are the people of Bethlehem, and since their part is not really spelled out in the Bible, we have taken great liberty over the years with our characterizations. We've had Willie Nelson, the Godfather, Monty Python rip offs, a bear wearing a fez and Benny Hill music.

This year we got more ambitious and came up with a musical number. We took the song "Skid Row" from Little Shop of Horrors and changed the words to make them, as the Attorney said, "more Bethlehemy." We had a blast. TIA and I were The Bethlehemettes, our version of the du-wop girls that act as a Greek chorus in the above mentioned musical. We wore matching polka dot dresses, TIA had her hair in a very, very special bouffant and we danced and sang in our best 1960's girl group manner.

But it wasn't just fun for us. Of all the scenes we've ever done, I think this one was one of the best at conveying the frustration of the people of Bethlehem and their desire that the Messiah come soon. As people listened to words, you could see it on their faces. And, they were very surprised and entertained by 8 people singing and dancing on a playground patio in (mostly) Biblical outfits. A lot of the kids danced along with us.

This production has always brought me joy, but this year was extra joyful. And even though I don't think I'll ever get that song out of my head, I wouldn't have missed it for anything.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Peace, Love and Understanding

Friday I worked on our Koinonia CD. I wanted to include this song, but didn't have room. So, this is my reflection for Friday.

As I walk through this wicked world
Searchin for light in the darkness of insanity
I ask myself is all hope lost?
Is there only pain and hatred and misery?

And each time I feel like this inside
there's one thing I wanna know:
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?

And as I walk on through troubled times
My spirit gets so downhearted sometimes
So where are the strong? And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony? Sweet harmony.

'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me wanna cry:
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?

So where are the strong? And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony? Sweet harmony.
'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me wanna cry:
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?
What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?




Thursday, December 11, 2008

Peace in repetition

I subbed again today. And this morning I was not looking forward to it. For a variety of reasons, I would have much rather stayed in bed today. But, they were expecting me, so off I went.

My mood did not improve in the car on the way to school. I was subbing for the music teacher and the students had just finished studying The Nutcracker. The plan for this week was to watch a DVD version of the ballet. The idea of watching the same section of video with 6 different classes was not appealing. I was not going to be busy enough or distracted enough to get out of my funk.

I wasn't busy. I wasn't distracted. But I did get out of my funk. The repetition actually helped me. There was something very soothing in hearing the familiar strains of music again and again and watching the ballerinas pirouette and twirl in the same way over and over. Maybe it's a little bit like Gregorian chants or mantras or Hail Marys. Those things never appealed to me before, never seemed like a good avenue to clear my head and get closer to God. Repetition never seemed peaceful to me. But today, I found peace in repetition. I left school much, much happier than I was when I got there.

Wednesday's Reflection

I subbed for a 5th grade class today. I used to teach 5th grade, so this was famliiar territory. I had subbed in the same classroom a week ago and got to read aloud part of Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech to the class. Since I had my planning period before reading time, and since I was going to be reading chapter ten and wanted context for the story, I read during my break. Actually, I read all through my break. And I read after school since I had to stay until 3:30. Yesterday, I got to read it again, a few chapters later in the book. I didn't have much time to read during planning, so I stayed after school and read. I stayed 30 minutes later than I had to in order to finish the book. That's the kind of reader I am when the book is right. And this book is right.

Walk Two Moons is two stories interwoven. Actually, more if you count the backstories. Sal is traveling with her grandparents from Ohio to Idaho to see her mother - the mother who recently left her and her father. While on the road, Sal entertains her grandparents with the story of her friend Phoebe, Phoebe's missing mother and the lunatic. I won't tell how any of the stories end, but Sharon Creech knows how to break your heart. In a good way. I sat at the teacher's desk with tears streaming down my face as I read. Thank goodness I waited until after school!

Good writing will do that to you. Especially good children's books - the kind where the characters aren't perfect and everything doesn't wrap up neatly at the end. The characters in Walk Two Moons were looking for resolution, and none found it in the way or place they were expecting. Their true peace came in accepting that.

Jesus was not the Messiah that the Jews were looking for. He did not provide the resolution they were expecting. But he is the Prince of Peace. And our true peace comes in accepting that.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

On Earth peace, good will toward men

The Gospel of Luke is my favorite version of the Christmas story. I actually learned this passage from Linus before I knew it was in the Bible! Both Luke and A Charlie Brown Christmas bring me peace at this time of year.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Sleep in heavenly peace

I'm in a women's choir at church. One of our major ministries is singing at nursing and retirement homes at Christmastime. It's time consuming, another thing to put on the calendar and often a pain to get to the locations during rush hour traffic.

But it's worth it. I love this ministry. I love watching the residents as we sing: Some sing along. Some smile tenderly. Some weep. Some take a nap. It's a little sad to know that some of them are spending the holiday season alone, but I know that our time with them brings them peace.

This year we're singing a beautiful arrangement of "Silent Night." The piano is gorgeous and we get to sing rich, multi-layered, unexpected chords. This has always been one of my favorite Christmas carols, so having a great arrangement is the cherry on top. No matter what kind of day I've had, no matter how bad traffic was, no matter how off pitch we were in the previous piece or if I forget which verse comes where, I feel something when we sing the line , "Sleep in heavenly peace." Every time, as I pucker my mouth so that my vowels match the group, I feel it - heavenly peace.

Hope and Peace

I don't think I even touched the computer this weekend! We were very busy with decorations, a party, choir gigs, church and Christmas Fair. So I did not post my reflections for the weekend. But I did, in the midst of all my activity, take time to reflect. Here are my thoughts from Saturday and Sunday.

After the Storm
The Assistant Dean often gives me Christmas ornaments for presents. We started this when we were roommates, and being the considerate friend she is, she has continued the tradition. She also lived for many years in Mississippi. One of those years happened to be the year of Hurricane Katrina. And although they weren't close to the coast, their town was severely damaged by wind and other effects of the storm. So the Assistant Dean, the Southern Gentleman and their pooches came to stay with us for a few days while things got back to normal. For Christmas that year, she gave me an ornament made from debris from Hurricane Katrina that she bought at a local art fair. The wooden square is painted bright yellow with a border of rainbow squares. And in the middle it proclaims, "Hope!" in a beautiful, curly-cued font.

I made sure this ornament was front and center when we decorated the tree. Partly because it was "hope" week and partly because I need to be reminded of what that ornament proclaims. On the back is a sticker that says, "What we thought was our darkest hour, God will use to bring new light to our lives." If people who lost everything in Katrina can have hope, so can I.

Thanks be to God for sending His son to be our light and our hope.

The Peace of Christmas Fair
Anyone who has attended or worked at Christmas Fair at my church knows that the above statement is not true. Christmas Fair is not peaceful. It is loud and active and full of smells and small, warm bodies. If you are in charge of a craft, you spend 2 1/2 hours explaining and gluing and re-gluing and explaining, especially if you come up with a rather ambitious (though very cool!) craft.

But I found peace in the chaos of Christmas Fair. I found peace in seeing the excited children. I found peace in members of our youth group sharing their musical talents. I found peace in the choirs singing. But mostly, I found peace in doing what I am called to do. I am a teacher of children. I'm good at it. It makes me happy. And not the fleeting kind of happy. Rather, the deep, abiding kind of happiness that can best be described as inner peace. I'm thankful to have avenues to share my gift even when I'm not working at a school. And I'm thankful that I missed my traditional Sunday afternoon nap to be with a mob of children with sticky fingers.


Friday, December 5, 2008

Xi1 wang4

I'm taking Chinese lessons from a student at the local university. We have a reciprocal thing going where I help her with English and she helps me with Chinese. I have a book and CD program that we're following and she extends the lessons and helps me practice. I will never be fluent. I might not ever be proficient. But I will at least know how to be polite in Mandarin when we go to China!

One of the vocabulary words in today's lesson was, funny enough, HOPE. That is the strange looking word in the post title. Chinese is a tonal language. Each vowel has 5 tones. Chinese is also written in characters instead of letters, but can be written in pinyin, which is what is above. When you cannot type the proper tonal mark above a letter, you indicate the tone with a number after the letter. The first syllable is pronounced "she," keeping the "e" sound very neutral and holding it a little longer than you would in English. The second syllable is pronounced "wong." The 4th tone goes down, kind of like lowering your voice or fading out. I'm realize I'm not explaining this very well. It's much easier to understand when you hear it. But I hope I've explained enough that you can sort of hear the word in your head.

Driving home from my lesson, I of course thought about my little Chinese girl and the hope I have that we'll meet each other soon. And as it's Advent, my thoughts went to another, rather important, expectant mother. I am no way elevating myself to the status of Mary, but I do see some commonalities between us. Mary didn't truly understand what had brought her to the place she was in her life as she journeyed to Bethlehem. I still don't understand why I'm where I am right now. Mary didn't know what was going to happen after her child arrived. I have no idea how our lives will change when we finally get our baby. Mary went on a journey to give birth (well, not exactly for that purpose, but that's how it turned out.) I'll go on a journey to get my baby. And most importantly, Mary had hope that what God promised her would be fulfilled. I have xi1 wang4.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Hear all the bombs, they fade away...

For the last few years, my Sunday School class (and alumni) have put together a themed CD at Christmas time. It's become one of my favorite holiday traditions - a great way to stay connected to some of my favorite people combined with one of my favorite hobbies.

This year's theme is Advent related: Songs of Hope, Peace, Love and Joy. The song I have chosen actually encompasses all of those ideas, but I share it today as a song of hope. The words by themselves are inspiring (and a little esoteric. This is definitely a band for English majors!), but the performance is also. I've attached a video of a live performance after the lyrics. It starts off with a little bit of a buzz from the fun instruments used by the group (accordion and I don't know what else!), but it gets better about 1 minute in.

"Sons and Daughters" by The Decemberists
When we arrive, sons and daughters
We'll make our homes on the water
We'll build our walls of aluminum
We'll fill our mouths with cinnamon

These currents pull us 'cross the border
Steady your boats arms to shoulder
'Til tides all pull our hull aground
Making this calm harbor now home

Take up your arms, sons and daughters
We will arise from the bunkers
By land, by sea, by dirigible
We'll leave our tracks untraceable

Hear all the bombs, they fade away
Hear all the bombs, they fade away


Wednesday, December 3, 2008

"Hope" is the thing with feathers

"Hope" is the thing with feathers -
That perches in the soul -
And sings the tune without the words -
And never stops - at all -

And sweetest - in the Gale - is heard -
And sore must be the storm -
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm -

I've heard it in the chillest land -
And on the strangest Sea -
Yet, never, in Extremity,
It asked a crumb - of Me.

- Emily Dickinson

Hoping and wishing are not the same. It took me a while to realize that. I used the words interchangeably when I was younger. But now I know better. Wishing is passive. Hoping is active. And although I really like this poem by Emily Dickinson, I disagree with her closing thought (at least I disagree with my interpretation of her final thought). Hope does ask something of us - "a crumb" to use Dickinson's words. Hope asks us to have faith. Hope asks us to believe. Hope asks us to wait expectantly for the thing we are hoping for. And hope, in turn, sustains us - it sings in our soul, keeps us warm, carries us through the storm.

The last few years of my life have taught me a lot about hope. Sometimes that crumb has felt more like a whole loaf of bread! But hope has, and will continue to, sustain me through these sore storms, chilly lands and strange seas.

Thanks be to God!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

The Reason for the Season

I can't believe I actually used that phrase as a post title because I don't like it. It's trite and I don't like how it is used, most often in a very commercial way by religious groups to convict people of being too commercial at Christmas time.

But I do believe in the sentiment behind the phrase. It is easy to forget what this season is about. I've been filling out my calendar, making shopping plans, organizing events, getting out decorations and addressing Christmas cards, but I haven't been pausing to reflect on why.

So, I'm going to use my blog this season to take time for reflection. My goal is to post something each day until Christmas using the tenants of Advent (I'm so glad I belong to a [Baptist!} church that practices Advent!) as a guide. This way, amidst what can sometimes be a chaotic time, I won't forget (ack, I'm using it again!) the reason for the season.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

The Attorney, Rodney Dean and I attended the Danielson show last night at a local club. I'm not sure how The Attorney discovered this band, but they've been on our radar for a couple of years now. We've even watched the documentary about them (twice!). The band grew out of the lead singer, Daniel's, thesis for his MFA. He got his brothers, sisters and friends together, threw on some nurse's uniforms, and went about performing perky, strange, spiritually related music. Daniel's vocal stylings lean more toward screaming at times, so it's hard to always understand the words. But his enthusiasm is contagious and although I don't know that I would go so far as to say I'm a fan, I enjoy some of their songs.

Over the years, the make up of the band has been rather fluid, as family members have grown up, married, moved, etc. The group we saw last night had a few of the original members, but also included the members of one of the opening band. There was only one girl.

The following videos are of Danielson songs that have grown on me and they can definitely be described as wacky!

Did I Step on Your Trumpet?


Rubbernecker

Monday, November 17, 2008

Adios, Lucille

Although we purchased Rosie, the Prius, in late September, we did not sell Lucille, the Corolla, until last Friday night. It was a bittersweet moment for both of us. Cars are things, but they are more personal than many other possessions. We spend a big part of our life in our cars and Lucille was involved in some pretty significant moments in our lives together:
  • Lucille moved the Attorney to our fair city. Garden Girl and Dr. A took turns driving her on the trip down from Arkansas.

  • Lucille took us around West Texas on our first spring break trip here. The Attorney proposed on this trip.

  • On that same trip, Lucille did NOT run out of gas between Big Bend and a small town that I cannot remember. I do remember that The Attorney and I held our breath for most of that ride and that we most likely coasted into town on fumes.

  • Lucille cleaned up well from that infamous night that I got food poisoning. And The Attorney married me anyway.

  • Lucille had a dancing hula girl on her dashboard for many years that I gave The Attorney for his birthday. The Texas heat melted her skirt a little bit, so she soon became a mooning dancing hula girl.

  • Lucille was the "getaway" car at our wedding almost 10 years ago.

Thanks for the memories and safe trips, Lucille! You'll make a fine car for someone else.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

Patriotic Muppets
In honor of last week's election and Veterans' Day, here's a patriotic number by The Muppets.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Sigh

After a great week of hanging out with The Parents, this week has started off in a less than glorious fashion: the waiting list for China barely moved, we can't sell the Corolla without another piece of paperwork, it's raining (which I am thankful for, but which in my current state of mind is just depressing), it's mid-November and 70 degrees outside, my hall bathroom tub faucet is leaking...

Just call me Eeyore.

I know I have a good life. I know I have a lot for which to be thankful. I know this too will pass.

But knowing, as I learned from G.I. Joe as a child, is only half the battle. I guess feeling is the other.

And I feel like I have done something wrong and am being punished. I feel like screaming when I see Sarah Palin's unwed pregnant teenage daughter. I feel like I am stuck in a rut that just keeps getting deeper and deeper. And I feel guilty because I don't think I'm going to enjoy the holidays this year as much as I usually do.

Sigh.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

Thanks, as always, to The Attorney for his suggestion for today's video. This pretty much sums up how I feel today.



P.S. George Lucas was stupid to take this out of the re-released version of "Return of the Jedi." This song is silly, but it embraces the silliness and camp that is the Ewoks. The new song/ending takes itself too seriously.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Proud to Be an American

We didn't end up going to a movie, just out to eat. And, as I suspected, the Attorney did not avoid watching election returns. We've been switching channels all night and unfortunately, did not see the actual moment when the electoral votes jumped. I'm happily in shock. I smile every time someone says "Barack Obama will be the next president of the United States." I remember seeing him downtown earlier this year and thinking how inspiring he was and how great it would be if he actually won. And he did. Heartily. In Iowa!?!?!?! And he got higher percentages in many states than I would have expected.

I said earlier today that the last two presidential elections had made me lose faith in my fellow countrymen. I am happy to say my faith has been restored tonight. We will have an African American president in January. We will have a thoughtful, intelligent president in January. We will have a president who is committed to making this country better and who has inspired our country and brought us together.

In the words of that Lee Greenwood song from the 80's, "I'm proud to be an American."

This is It!

I can't believe this day is FINALLY here! I've got that nervous anticipation thing in my stomach this is reminiscent of how I felt as a kid on Christmas Eve. I won't let myself be too optimistic. The last two elections made me lose my confidence in the American people when it comes to choosing a president. I want to be proven wrong, but I'm steeling myself to be disappointed.

I voted early (along with a busload of people from a nearby retirement home. They voted straight Democrat. I know this because they kept saying, quite loudly, that they wanted to vote "Straight Democrat!") , but I am participating in election related activities today. I made a political mix playlist that I am listening to while I clean the house for the arrival of The Parents. I put out my American flag. I also had an unexpected, but interesting, political discussion with The Sister-in-Law this morning. While we pretty much disagree on every issue, we both left the conversation happy that we live in a country where we can disagree and still have the opportunity to vote for candidates (third party in her case!) that we believe in. And finally, if it will still stick, I will proudly sport my "I Voted" sticker along with TIA's flag pin that I borrowed for my Sarah Palin Halloween costume. (Note to friends with digital cameras: If you have photos of me from Halloween, please pass them on. I know I could see them if I was on The Facebook, but I'm not, so help me out!) The Attorney does not want to stay home and watch election results all night, so we will be going out to dinner and perhaps a movie to kill some time.

Enjoy this day. Vote if you haven't already. And be grateful that you live in a country where this day is both momentual and, thankfully, mostly uneventful.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Tragedy in the Congo

One of the great things about living in a university town is meeting people who are studying interesting things. One of my best friends here is doing her dissertation about the situation in the eastern part of the Democratic Republic of the Congo. She is passionate about her work and about educating people about what is going on in this often overlooked part of the world. Recently, the situation has gotten much, much worse. Please pray for the people of Congo, the peacekeepers and other troops who are working to establish order there and the aid workers who are facing desparate people in situations like this one:

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

I promise to post something of substance soon. Until then, enjoy these gems from The Onion.

John McCain Accidentally Left on Bus
This is a little mean (well, maybe more than a little!), but it's funny.

John McCain Accidentally Left On Campaign Bus Overnight

Cindy McCain Just Like Any Other Human
I have to admit, I am a little scared of Cindy McCain. Maybe this explains why!

Cindy McCain Claims She�s �Just Like Any Other Female Human�

Thursday, October 23, 2008

A Day in the Life of a Sub...

- I made 3 kindergarteners cry today.

+ No kindergarteners made me cry today.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

Literal Videos
I don't know who these people are, but they do good work. I especially appreciate that they've taken videos and songs that don't really make much sense in their original forms.

Take on Me by AHA


Head Over Heels by Tears for Fears

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday (Late Again!) - Political Edition

My excuse this week is twofold:

1) We went to see The Magnetic Fields on Tuesday night. I REALLY wanted to find a video from them to put up yesterday, but all I could find were tribute videos and really low quality live recordings. If you don't know anything about this band, check them out here:



They have a very unique sound and didn't look at all like I imagined them. It was possibly the most laid back show I've ever been to and while there I learned that there are enough hipsters in this town to fill the Paramount Theater.

(For you other Lemony Snicket fans out there, Stephin Merritt is friends with Daniel Handler and is the voice of The Gothic Archies.)


2) I had to make enough potato salad to feed 100 people yesterday. This is more complicated and time consuming than it sounds.


So...I am late again on Wacky Web Wednesday. But thanks to Mr. Golden Hale I had material waiting for me in my inbox.

Vote for Hope
Not wacky, but it did come from the web. It's nice to see something a little more positive in this tense election time.



Sarah Palin Vlog
It's a little long, but these girls are a hoot! She doesn't look the part as much as Tina Fey, but she has the voice down. And she even throws in a praise chorus, raised hands and all. This girl knows her Assembly of God!

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

I-600A Update

I guess I should have put my activist hat on a little earlier because USCIS issued a statement on the I-600A issue yesterday. In short, they accepted grandfathering in people who were already in the system with the I-600A form! Many thanks to those of you who contacted your reps and/or signed the petition.

If you want to know more about the ruling, see the following:
http://www.uscis.gov:80/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=c5921c48aabfc110VgnVCM1000004718190aRCRD&vgnextchannel=68439c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD

Also, re-reading my post from yesterday I didn't like the tone of my ending paragraph. The gist of what I wanted to say is that I know this issue isn't one of the BIG ones, but it is important. (And selfishly, it's very important to me.) Thanks for understanding.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Call to Action - I-600A

When you get involved the process of international adoption, you become way too familiar with all kinds of bureaucracy, federal agencies and names and numbers for documents and forms. It really is a nightmare of paperwork. We navigated it fairly easily thanks to The Attorney's legal skills, but it was a pain. It became even more of a pain when we had to do part of it again due to the increased waiting time for Chinese adoption. We, like many other families in our position, had to renew our 1-600A form. And, unfortunately, we (and those other families) might have to do it again if things continue to slow down. This time, however, the nightmare could be worse because The Hague has changed the rules, so the US has changed the paperwork. Essentially, this means starting almost all over again with part of the process.

Our paperwork has been in China for over two years now. We have been approved by both governments for adoption for over a year. We were approved when the rule change took effect. And we're hoping that we will be allowed to take the slightly easier step of extending our current paperwork if necessary.

This could happen and you can have a voice in it, not just for us, but for the many other families around the country who are in our position. The Joint Council on International Children's Services has been working with USCIS (what used to be INS) to allow families like us to be grandfathered in to the new rules and let us continue to renew our existing paper work. The following link has 5 easy steps you can do to help. It also includes a link to much more detailed explanations about what this is all about.

This is not about ending world hunger. Or stopping nuclear weapons. Or fixing our broken economy. Or reducing our dependence on foreign oil. It's about helping families come together - helping children find homes. Seems like a pretty good place to start to me.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Playing Dirty

I am very tired of this election. It's already gone on for WAY too long and it just keeps getting uglier. I know this happens every time. And every time it upsets me. This year bothers me more than usual, however, because both candidates promised not to play this way. I know they are politicians. I know this is how it works. But it bothers me nonetheless.

I got to watch about 5 minutes of The Today Show this morning before I went to my sub job, and what I saw got my day off to the wrong start. Although both sides are taking unfair punches, the Republicans are hitting below the belt. McCain and Palin accuse Obama of "paling around with terrorists," people in their campaign are making sure to use his middle name, Palin says we should revisit his ties to Jeremiah Wright...I'm pretty sure there were more but I've taught 2nd graders since then and set up a book fair, so my mind is thankfully fuzzy. What is abundantly clear to me is that these are pages out of Karl Rove's Campaign Bible - playing on people's misguided and uninformed fears - meant to reach the same people who forward me the "Obama is a radical jihadist" e-mails. (Note to McCain and Palin: Those people are going to vote for you anyway.) I hope Americans are smarter than that. I pray that we are. But the fact that we elected W. twice doesn't give me a lot of faith in my countrymen.

What if people believe this stuff? Some people obviously do and are gung-ho about it. I saw them on TV this morning! The crowd responses to the McCains and Palin were a little too reminiscent of video I've seen of reactions at Nazi propaganda rallies. A little harsh, Librarian? Yes! But it was really unnerving to me. As I said in my last politically related post, I want people to think about why they vote for something or someone. These crowds were not definitely not responding with their minds.

I don't discount emotion and its effect on our choices. I know it's a factor for me. Heck, this post is an emotional response!! But when I go to the polls in November, I'm voting with my head. The choice of the next leader of the free world cannot be left up to emotion. It shouldn't come down to who scares me the least!

It's gotten ugly. And it's only going to get worse.

It's going to be a long 3 weeks.

Wacky Web Wednesday (a day late again!)

Sorry for the lack of posting as of late. My life of leisure suddenly got a lot busier!

British Ukelele Tribute to Pop Icon from the 70's
I don't want to give away any more than that. Thanks to the Pastor for passing this on!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Here's...Rosie!



The Attorney and I like to name our cars. And for some reason he thinks most cars are girls. After much deliberation, we have christened our new Prius Rosie, after the maid on the Jetsons. She is, afterall, a futuristic bubble car and has many, many special features to serve us (including a GPS system that talks in a woman's voice).

The new has not worn off dear Rosie yet. We're still learning all her bells and whistles and are loving the gas mileage (although we've been told it actually gets better with time). I'm also pleasantly surprised by the amount of room in the car, head and otherwise. And though she doesn't have the "zoom zoom" of the Mazda 3 we test drove, she has more get up and go than I expected. And the interior is very comfortable (especially for an 11 hour road trip, which was her maiden voyage!)

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

You've got to stand for something

On the way back from volunteering at my neighborhood elementary school library this morning, I found myself behind a car with a political bumper sticker. Political bumper stickers are not unusual in our town, and are very common in our neighborhood, but this one caught my eye. As we stopped at a stop sign, I pulled my bike closer to make sure I was seeing the sticker correctly. It said Obama, which again is not uncommon in my neighborhood, but it also had the international NO sign over his name, which I hadn't seen before. I was a little surprised, especially since we learned at our caucus in March that our precinct is among the largest Democratic precincts in the county. But McCain/Palin signs have been sprouting up around the neighborhood lately, so I know there are Republicans out there. This was different, though, and it bothered me. I couldn't exactly put my finger on why at the time, but as I've mulled it over this afternoon, I've figured out what it is.

The driver of that car proudly proclaimed his dislike of Obama, but he didn't offer an alternative. I know you can't put your entire political belief system on a bumper sticker (at least, you shouldn't be able to!), but that sticker encapsulated something that has really frustrated me about this election, and what I've seen through this of the current mindset of our country: People are adamant about what they don't believe in, but loathe to speak up for what they do. They're quick to point out what and who they like and don't like, but can't (or won't) offer reasoned explanations as to why. I wholeheartedly respect people's rights to have opinions that differ from mine, but am frustrated by the lack of thought behind those opinions. Perhaps I analyze things too much. I am a librarian after all, and I like researching and sorting out facts from opinions. I am definitely over educated, white and middle class, which I know affects my belief system. And I am definitely worried about the outcome of an election when people are voting against someone and not for something. As Aaron Tippen put it so well, "You've got to stand for something, or you'll fall for anything." Maybe that's what I'll put on my bumper sticker. But I don't think it will fit on my bike.

Wacky Web Wednesday

And now for something completely different...

Instead of posting videos from the web this week, I am sharing an e-mail forwarded to The Attorney by one of his bosses. Since I receive roughly 8-10 of these kinds of e-mails each week (thanks a lot, Grande spam filter!), I consider myself well versed in them. This is dead on.

Your Urgent Help Needed
Dear American:

I need to ask you to support an urgent secret business relationship with a transfer of funds of great magnitude. I am Ministry of the Treasury of the Republic of America. My country has had crisis that has caused the need for large transfer of funds of 800 billion dollars US. If you would assist me in this transfer, it would be most profitable to you.

I am working with Mr. Phil Gram, lobbyist for UBS, who will be my replacement as Ministry of the Treasury in January. As a Senator, you may know him as the leader of the American banking deregulation movement in the 1990s. This transactin is 100% safe. This is a matter of great urgency. We need a blank check. We need the funds as quickly as possible. We cannot directly transfer these funds in the names of our close friends because we are constantly under surveillance. My family lawyer advised me that I should look for a reliable and trustworthy person who will act as a next of kin so the funds can be transferred. Please reply with all of your bank account, IRA and college fund account numbers and those of your children and grandchildren to wallstreetbailout@treasury.gov so that we may transfer your commission for this transaction. After I receive that information, I will respond with detailed information about safeguards that will be used to protect the funds.

Yours Faithfully,
Minister of Treasury Paulson

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

And the winner is...

We finally made a decision in our car search and are taking steps to purchase....

a black 2008 Prius.

In my previous post about car shopping I stated that we had ruled out a Prius due to the waiting list here in our hippie infested town. Well, it's nice to have connections, say for example the father of an old friend who happens to work at a Toyota dealership in a town where hybrids are not such a hot commodity. We'll be crossing the state line to pick up our new automobile and getting to visit our families at the same time. Yippee!

Wacky Web Wednesday

A little humor from The Muppet Show during this week of depressing economic news.

Pigs in Space


The Swedish Chef


Veterinarian's Hospital

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Batten Down the Hatches!

So there's a slight chance (growing slighter each day I think) that our fair city will see some effects of Hurricane Ike. I am currently listening to the sound of chainsaws (provided by the men who are thoughtfully clearing our trees of dead limbs) and the sound of barking (provided by my dog who is thoughtfully protecting me from the aforementioned men). We were going to get the trees trimmed up this month anyway, and the possibility of high winds was encouragement to, as Larry the Cable Guy so eloquently puts it, "Git 'er done!" They were supposed to come tomorrow, but a change in schedule brought them here this afternoon. The Attorney will be surprised when he gets home!

After Hurricane Katrina, we housed the Assistant Dean, the Southern Gentleman and their doggies for a few days. Such an auspcicious occasion needed a soundtrack, and the Attorney and I are always up to creating mixed CDs, so we came up with the following playlist. A few of the songs are specific to our adventure with our friends, but I think anyone can enjoy it, especially if a mighty wind's a blowin' your way! (Thanks to YouTube, you can hear most of these songs and in some cases, watch the original video. I loves the Internets!)

Stormy Monday Bobby "Blue" Bland
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-B3bWwK_Bk
Wasn't That a Mighty Storm Nanci Griffith and Friends
Hurricane Party Cowboy Mouth
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDVm5dVZ9aM
Eye of the Hurricane David Wilcox
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2EdNdIp6OA
Rock You Like a Hurricane Scorpions
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rB8HudfbaTE
Two Sparrows in a Hurricane Tanya Tucker
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUsyHVjacJ0
A Mighty Wind Original Movie Cast
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOM7mUaOgtI
Trees Wayne and Wanda (Muppet Show)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXIVskmM-_A
I Can See Clearly Now Johnny Nash
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkwJ-g0iJ6w
Uncloudy Day Willie Nelson
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQzUL20-1rQ
Wayfaring Stranger Johnny Cash
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RY1__G1LRHY
Refugee Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJ-bhM-xuec
Shelter from the Storm Bob Dylan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HJdnOnWK_A
Sanctuary Eliza Gilkyson
Sweet Tequila Blues Chip Taylor and Carrie Rodriguez
Hard Times Come Again No More Nanci Griffith and Friends http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMTv44FHG3Y

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Ooo la la, Sassoon!

Let's face it - getting your hair cut and styled is nice. Growing up with basically my own personal hairdresser (thanks, Auntie Pat!) spoiled me and has made it hard for me to pay a lot for a haircut. I've gotten my share of $12.00 haircuts and although they are fine and practical and appeal to my frugal side, they aren't fun. It's not an event. And I'm not usually happy with them down the road when they start to grow out. The Assistant Dean and I would go for haircuts together when we were roomies, and we had a great stylist. I was always happy with the results and didn't mind the price. But when we moved here and everything was more expensive, I decided to cut back. I've had 3-4 "good" haircuts since I've lived here, usually when I was in the mood to make a major style change. The Attorney wasn't always happy, but I liked the cuts and I really liked the process of getting it cut. The Fabulous Grady is fabulous, and although he uses a lot of hairspray, he makes you feel very pretty. And he's a hoot!

I did not go to The Fabulous Grady today. I went to a fairly new place in our neighborhood that the Attorney has been frequenting. We've been very pleased with his haircuts, the place is local and they serve you beer while you're waiting! For free! Now, this is not a $12.00 haircut place, not even for guys, so I guess that free beer isn't so free. But the Attorney suggested I try it, so I did. I was able to ride my bike, I enjoyed a Lone Star while I perused a magazine, and got my hair cut by someone almost as fabulous as Grady. (Note to TIA and Professor Deutsch - he mentioned his partner 2 minutes into our conversation, so no questions there!) I really like the cut, and I like how he talked to me about my hair and showed me how to style it without trying to get me to buy the salon products. I plan to go back, as long as my girly side can convince the frugal side that it's worth it. And I can walk or bike, so that saves at least a couple of dollars of gas!

Wacky Web Wednesday

Walker Texas Ranger
Last night, Chuch Norris was in a skit on Late Night with Conan. I couldn't find that skit, but it reminded me of how much I enjoyed it when Conan had his WTR lever which allowed him to show short clips from the show. Apparently, others enjoyed it as well because there are several mashups of the clips on YouTube. Here's one of my faves:



My Two Beautiful, Handsome, Striking, Sons, Walker and Texas Ranger
This scene does contain some offensive language, so don't let the kids watch!

Friday, September 5, 2008

Cause a lifetime's not too long...

Reading those books and seeing the movie (plus being pretty much a ball of raw emotion these days!) made me think about my three best friends (who will probably not be happy with me for posting this picture on the Internets. Keep in mind that it was the late 80's and we lived in the South!). I met one of them on the first day of Kindergarten, and the other two in the tumultuous times of junior high. We had our share of drama and our ups and downs, but we always had each other. Unfortunately, we live all across the country and don't see each other or talk as often as we should. But, we love each other. And we know each other better than anyone else. When we do talk or see each other, time and distance don't matter. That's true friendship. I am blessed to have it. I love you girls, very, very much!

Lianygerethy forever!

At the movies

I went to a movie by myself yesterday. I have never done that before. Yes, I am thirty-something and fairly liberated and independent. Yes, I have watched movies alone before, but at home on VHS or DVD or cable. But I hadn't gone to the theater by myself to see a movie. Driving there yesterday I tried to figure out why and the best I could come up with is : even though you don't talk at the movies, going to the movies was always a social thing for me. It was what we did for entertainment before we could drive, a safe first date, an event in college (where for most of my time there we had to drive to another town to see a movie!)...

So why did I finally venture out and go by myself yesterday? As I've said before, I've got a lot of free time on my hands these days. And the movie I wanted to see was not something that the Attorney would want to watch. And, I'm feeling the need to break some of my old cycles, to do things differently. I need to feel like I am using this time instead of being used by it. So off to the movies!

I saw "The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2" and I liked it. I read the first book as part of my book club and ended up reading the whole series. I went with a group of girls to see the first movie when it came out. In anticipation of the sequel, I re-read the series, finishing the last one yesterday morning. I enjoy reading young adult literature, which is good since I am a children's librarian! Some is better than others, and this series, while not profound or life-changing, is good. Well developed, relatable characters. Just enough angst and romance. Bonds of friendship that grow and change with time, but don't break. Two movies out of four books means you don't get everything (but you never do with a film adaption! That's a post for another day!), but they did a good job capturing the spirit and major plot lines of the books. And the casting was terrific - when I re-read the books those actresses were the characters in my head.

I thought I might be alone in the theater - a 1:30 matinee of a teen oriented movie during the second week of school - but I wasn't. There were two other women there, so I had the social element I enjoy about going to the movies, even though it wasn't with people I know. I give my first solo visit to the movies a thumbs up and plan to do it again soon.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Redneck Riviera Reading List

I know, I know, my trip was 2 weeks ago so shut up about it already! But one of the best parts of the trip for me was the chance to get in a lot of undisturbed reading time. Since I posted earlier with a request for beach read suggestions, I thought I would share what I ended up with:

The New Kings of Nonfiction edited by Ira Glass
I don't usually read non-fiction, at least not for pleasure. I picked this book up because it was on sale at Bookpeople, I had a gift card, and because of Ira Glass. "This American Life" is one of my favorite shows on NPR. It always holds my interest, even when it's a topic or a person with which I have nothing in common. Glass has a knack for finding stories and voices that connect to people and I hoped that would be true with this book. It did not disappoint.

In his introduction, Glass states that this book was put together from a stack of articles he kept in his office - articles that he kept because something in them drew him to them and that he gave to people when they needed help with writing. They are also articles in which the author does not distance him/herself from the topic (Glass says "phooey" to that type of journalism). This lack of distance makes for a good read, even on topics that I know nothing about (like modern art and the World Series of Poker). I was entertained and informed, which may be nerdy, but is right up my alley. It's also an easy book to pick up and put down, since each chapter is self-contained. It was a good beach read, but would also be good to keep on your nightstand.

Bridget Jones's Diary by Helen Fielding
The Newlywed suggested this to me because it's on the Big Read list and it's light enough to be good beach reading. It was. I realize I am several years behind on this Bridget Jones thing. I was familiar with the story and movie, but didn't see it when it came out and have only seen parts of it on TV. I enjoyed Bridget's voice and the theme that she didn't have to change who she was to find love and happiness. It was kind of, to use the Attorney's favorite word in relation to all things female (songwriters, books, movies, etc.), empowering. And because of my recent Jane Austen/Pride and Prejudice mini-obsession, the idea of a character named Darcy, a small plot line involving the BBC miniseries, and the fact that this character was played in the movie by Colin Firth (Mr. Darcy himself!) brought things in my life together in a happily frivolous way.

I borrowed the DVD from the library yesterday. And I'm going to read the sequel. I may be a nerd, but I also like my chick lit!

Divided in Death by J.D. Robb
I started reading books in this series when I worked at the public library and people were checking them out a lot. J.D. Robb is Nora Roberts. Originally, the books didn't say that. Now they boldly proclaim "Nora Roberts writing as J.D. Robb." In spite of the fact that that is just ridiculous to me, I enjoy these books. They're murder mysteries, set in the future (but a relatable, only slightly more technologically advanced future), have a continuing cast of characters and just enough Nora Roberts to spice them up. (wink wink) Like my beloved Richard Jury series (by Martha Grimes, check them out!), you don't have to read them in order, but you'll be rewarded if you do. I haven't, because I don't like them enough to work hard enough or pay money to get them in order. But I like them enough to recommend them for an entertaining read. This is my second time taking this series to the beach, and they served their purpose well.

Rebellion by Nora Roberts
Definitely a guilty pleasure. To my credit, it was left at the condo by someone else. I didn't buy it or check it out from the library. Historical romance set in Scotland. Exactly what you think it is. I like to get my fix on this type of junk occasionally.

The Devil in the White City by Erik Larson
I started this one at the beach, but didn't finish until this week, which is why I'm just doing this post. This book was recommend to me by an acquaintance at a dinner party and then again later by Sister V. I picked it up at Bookpeople because I thought it was something I would like to have around because of the topic, even if I didn't enjoy it. But I did enjoy it. Immensely. It was a National Book Award finalist and deservedly so.

Larson interweaves the story of the creation and execution of the Chicago World's Fair and the story of a serial killer living in Chicago during the same time period. I encountered history I knew, names I recognized and events that were so absurd you just couldn't make them up. It doesn't read like non-fiction, especially the serial killer part. It's a murder mystery, wrapped up in a spectacle - a story that could only happen at that unique point in history and geography. I highly recommend it, and special thanks to Sister V for turning me on to it!

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

Dog Jumping on Trampoline
If we had a trampoline, I would definitely put Lola on it.



Watch out, John McCain!
Here's a new candidate for those who aren't happy with our current choices.


Old, Grizzled Third-Party Candidate May Steal Support From McCain

Friday, August 29, 2008

History in the Making

McCain hasn't officially announced it yet, but his VP choice is Sarah Palin, the governor of Alaska. I don't have the political expertise of many of my good friends, but I consider myself fairly well informed, and I did not see that coming. I knew it wasn't in his best interest to choose another old white man, but thought Louisiana governor Bobby Jindal would be his diversity pick if he went that way. Senator Kay Bailey Hutchinson's name got thrown around, but rumor is she wants to be governor of Texas (and, according to one of the Attorney's bosses, would only have helped with the "old white lady" vote), so I didn't figure she was a contender. I think I had heard Palin's name mentioned, but never on the short list. So I was very surprised when Charlie Gibson interrupted my "Ellen" re-run this morning with the news.

This won't make me vote for McCain. I don't vote straight ticket Democrat, but I definitely lean that way, and I've been an Obama fan from the beginning. But it does make this race more interesting. Whichever ticket wins will change history. And I was worried that the excitement of this LONG election season was over!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday (a day late)

Dancing at the DNC
This speaks for itself.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Redneck Riviera Wildlife Watch

In addition to people watching, there are various and sundry creatures to look at here at the beach.

Birds
There are seagulls, as you might expect. Most years there is a one-legged seagull and we always call him Clyde. We say he follows Auntie Pat around. Lots of seagulls, but no Clyde this year.

There are also pigeons. Pigeons - on the beach! I don't remember this from previous years. I've heard seagulls compared to pigeons, in that they're both nuisances, but it's strange to see them together.

There are other birds that look kind of like seagulls, but smaller. Auntie Deb and I have been calling them ernes, a word we learned from doing crossword puzzles. (clue: gull relative)

Each evening, flocks of pelicans fly over, heading toward the docks where the fishing boats come in. They're lovely to watch, especially from the balcony of the condo with a glass of wine!

Fish
I don't know what kind of fish they are, but they're mostly small, mostly translucent, and really, really like to nibble my toes, fingers, shoulder, etc. while I am in the water.

The water has been so clear we've seen lots of fish, including some pretty big ones.

We've also seen sting rays going up and down the beach, occasionally jumping out of the water. We can see them from our balcony in the morning, moving along the ocean floor.

And then there's the jellyfish. Most are small, but occasionally there are big ones. And invisible ones apparently! Like the one that stung me across my knees today! It didn't really hurt, no worse than a bee sting. But I was surprised because I did not see it.

Crustaceans
There are big crabs in the water. We usually see them getting washed up toward the shore when the tide changes. Again, due to the clearness of the water, we've seen quite a few.

There are also the little sand crabs. I haven't seen as many of them as I have in the past. They usually show up late in the afternoon. You know they're there because you see sand "spitting" up from little holes.

Mammals
Dolphins. Every morning and evening. They move in a group up and down the beach, sometimes coming in quite close. I love it when they leap out of the water. It's beautiful.

Mystery Creature
There is a black creature that we keep seeing swimming against the waves. It looks a little bit like a ray, but it moves it's "wings" up and down more than rays do. It also seems to have a small snout and antennae. We've gotten close, but not too close since we don't know what it is. I've perused the Internet, but no luck finding out what it is yet.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Redneck Riviera Fashion Report

Another beautiful day at the beach. So far, the thunderstorms have gone around us. We can see them, but they haven't rained us out. Not sure what's happening with Fay yet.

The beach is great for people watching. This is one of my favorite pass times and I really enjoy critiquing people's fashion choices. (TIA, I wish you were here! But Auntie Deb is proving to be a good surrogate.) The major theme at this part of the beach is people who should not be wearing bikinis wearing bikinis. I admire their self confidence and lack of body issues, but I don't always enjoy looking at them. Most of them did not check out the rear view when they chose their suits. I actually saw a thong today (well, the little bit of it that was visible!), which hurt just to look at. I think it's wearer was from another country. The other major faux pas is not enough support in the top. This is a common problem, especially with the older ladies.

There is a couple that walks the beach at least two times a day. The gentleman wears tasteful, longish trunks. The wife...One bikini is white. It has a bandeau top that doesn't support her and bottoms that have writing around the waist, making them resemble tighty whities. She mixes it up with a striped number, which thankfully has a little more support.

Thankfully, I have only seen one speedo. And this was on a young man. Unfortunately, the speedo was white. His friends mocked him enough that he went and put on some shorts over it. I did see a largish man in some very tight trunks while we were walking. They were pretty thin, but had some kind of lining that made them not as embarassing as they could have been.

Although not a fashion choice, another common theme is people who did not use any form of sunscreen. They are RED. Unnaturally red. So red it hurts to look at them. Many of them have beer bellies.

Camoflauge is also prevalent - on caps, shorts, t-shirts, and yes, bikinis.

Oh, the humanity!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Redneck Riviera

Greetings from the panhandle of Florida, also affectionately known as the Redneck Riviera. There are rednecks from all over the country here. And plenty of stores where they can get airbrushed license plates and t-shirts and a variety of things made out of shells. And an Olive Garden and Red Lobster right by the beach!

But there are also beautiful, white beaches and crystal clear blue green water. This will always be how the beach should be in my mind, imprinted as I was at a very early age. I love this place. The sound of the waves, the smell of the salt, the feel of the sand between my toes...It's very, very peaceful and relaxing.

Beach vacations with my family always follow a similar rhythm: wake up at a decent (but not too early hour), enjoy a family breakfast, put on bathing suits and sunscreen, then hit the beach. And this trip looks to be the same. I'll keep you posted.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

Mr. Rogers Learns to Breakdance
Like most little kids of my generation, I was a big Mr. Rogers fan (except for the part with the puppets! That cat drove me bonkers!) I also had a pediatrician that looked a whole like like Mr. R. I don't remember this episode, however.



Ken Lee
I know it's not nice to make fun of people trying to speak English. Perhaps if I was trying to sing in Bulgarian, I would do the same thing. Only not on national television. (P.S. Mariah Carey was not the first person to sing that song. It was Harry Nilsson, whoever he is!)

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Raining Cats and Dogs

Unfortunately, it's not. But we do have a decent chance of rain today. It's raining nearby. The sky is gray. It's actually gotten darker all morning. And when I went outside earlier to take some scraps to the compost, it smelled like rain. There is nothing like a summer of mostly 100+ degree days to make you appreciate even the smallest amount/chance of precipitation.

My post title is both wishful thinking and an opporunity to highlight two of my favorite creatures. My maternal instincts have thus far manifested themselves on a cat and a dog. Those of you who have personal knowledge of both of our pets know that they are polar opposites in personality. Lola is easy going, lovable and wants to please. Pip is high-strung, grumpy and "allows" us to live in her house. I think these recent pictures capture their personalities quite
nicely:





Monday, August 11, 2008

The Waiting is the Hardest Part

Oh, Tom Petty, you are so wise. Waiting is hard.

I've had a lot of practice waiting. It's a part of life, especially when you're younger: Waiting for school to start. Waiting for school to end. Waiting in line at Disney World. Christmas Eve. Waiting to turn 12 to get my ears pierced. Waiting to get my driver's license. Waiting for a phone call from a long distance boyfriend. Waiting for college acceptance letters.

I'm pretty patient. It's a trait I inherited from my mother (definitely not my father!) and I tend to hold up well while waiting.

But all my early in life practice and DNA could not prepare me for what I'm going through now.

We knew going in to this adoption that we would not have a definite time line. We knew the process could slow for various reasons. We knew this, and chose to do it anyway. The end is definitely worth the means.

And I've done some terrific things while waiting. I trained for and ran a marathon. I went to graduate school. I started a new career that I love and worked with some amazing people. I finally went to New York.

But waiting is hard. And I learned today that I'm going to have to do more of it. And that makes me sad.

To quote Tom, "You take it on faith. You take it to the heart. The waiting is the hardest part."

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

On the right day this week!

Girl is Terrified of Pickles
This is crazy! I've often questioned the reality of shows like Maury, and this over the top display just can't be real.



Ode to Joy, Beaker Style
The Muppets are now on the Internets! Someone is producing high quality web videos for YouTube. As a lifelong fan, that makes me happy. Beaker has always been one of my favorites and I share my birthday with the composer of this piece.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"I hear the drizzle of the rain..."


I don't hear the rain yet, but it should be here soon. Gracias, Eduard!

That line is from my favorite Simon and Garfunkel song. Actually, it's one of my favorite songs period. It's called "Kathy's Song." Kathy is also mentioned in "America," another S & G song I really like, and one that I happen to be learning to play on the guitar. So as I was preparing for my guitar lesson today, I got to thinking, "Who is Kathy?"

When my dad and I saw Simon and Garfunkel a few years ago, they talked about playing music in London where they had a friend named Kathy. Since Kathy warranted a song (a really beautiful song!) and is a character in another song, I figured there was more to it than that. Hooray for the Internet!

Various sources suggest that the Kathy mentioned in these songs is a woman named Kathy Chitty whom Simon dated while living in England in 1964-65. An excerpt from Paul Simon: The Definitive Biography by Laura Jackson confirms that he dated such a person. Since the songs are from that time period (Kathy's Song is from '65 and America is from '68) it makes sense. Jackson also says that Chitty came to visit Simon in America and that they went on an extended vacation around the country together. Since I was reading the book in a Google book preview, I didn't get to read all of it, so I don't have any idea about Kathy's personality or character. But, I do know what she looked like. She is on the cover of The Paul Simon Songbook with Paul (pictured above).
Have a listen if you're not familiar with it, or just because it's a great song!







In the Market...

The Attorney and I are in the market for a new vehicle. Alas, Lucille - our trusty 1995 Toyota Corrolla - is showing her age, and it's time to find something new. Like everyone else, we're interested in hybrids, but not sure if we're interested enough to get on the rumored 6 month waiting list for a Prius (even though we thought the one belonging to the Assistant Dean and the Southern Gentleman was way cool!) We're leaning toward a hatch back for versatility, but still want something with good gas mileage.

This weekend we test drove a Mazda 3 Sport. The price, size, and gas mileage are right and we both liked the extra get up and go it had compared to our current vehicles. But, being us, we're not ready to commit until we do some more homework and test driving.

We've been exceedingly pleased with our Honda and Toyota, so we'll definitely shop there as well. Unfortunately, Honda's only hatch back is the Fit, which is too small for our soon to be expanding family. Is the CRV too much of an SUV? We'll have to see. (tee hee hee!) [Sorry, I couldn't resist!] I'm interested in learning more about the Toyota Matrix as well. My limited research shows it to be comparable to the Mazda in everything but power, and actually a little cheaper in price.

I'd love testimonials from anyone who drives any of these vehicles and welcome suggestions for others we might not have considered.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Eat Your Veggies!

It's ironic that I got confused about a Wednesday, because that is the one day I actually have a routine. Wednesday is vegetable day.

As many of you know, we belong to a farm through a program called Community Supported Agriculture. We buy a share in the farm and the return on our investment is a box of vegetables every week from April through November. The risk is you get what's in season (even if you don't like it) and what's willing to grow in this unpredictable weather. The benefits are organic, locally grown produce, trying new and different things and helping to support some really great people. Our farm is Hairston Creek Farm in Burnet, Texas, and we're lucky enough to be one of their drop off sites in Austin, so our veggies get delivered right to our door!

Right now, it's eggplant season. I am a fan of eggplant, but I'm having to learn new ways to cook it when we get it in such abundance. Here is a new recipe I found that I really like. The Attorney described it as "very flavorful."

(Note: We usually get the skinnier, Japanese eggplants in the box. I'm sure this would work with the traditional, larger ones as well. You can also broil the eggplant instead of grilling it.)

Grilled Eggplant and Tomato Salad
6 small eggplants
1/4 cup olive oil
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 1/2 cup cherry or grape tomatoes, cut in half
2 green onions, finely chopped
2 Tbsp capers
3 Tbsp chopped fresh basil
2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
Fresh mozzarella cheese (pearls or cut into bite size pieces)
Salt and pepper

Slice eggplants into 1/2" rounds. Brush with olive oil. Grill about 2 minutes on each side, until soft and golden brown. Remove to serving platter.

Spread tomatoes, onions, garlic, basil, capers and cheese over eggplant. Whisk oil with balsamic vinegar and sprinkle over dish. Season with salt and pepper. Mix lightly.

Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is?

Apparently, I don't, since I posted my Wacky Web Wednesday segment on TUESDAY! Good grief! It even says very clearly right above the post - Tuesday, July 29, 2008. Aye, Dios mio!

In my defense, my sense of time has really been skewed this summer. This always happens to me when I don't have a regular routine. Days and weeks flow into each other and even though I'm not doing much (or perhaps because I'm not?), they seem to go by very quickly.

Time is an interesting concept. We have our arbitrary measurements of it and I work to help teach those to my students - seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades, centuries...I use these measurements. I abide by them (mostly, as I do have a tendency to be 5 minutes late everywhere I go),but I'm not sure I believe in them fully.

I have always been drawn to stories about time/time travel. As a kid, I watched Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymour in "Somewhere in Time" just about every time it came on cable. Madeline L'Engle, one of my favorite authors, consistently plays with the idea of time in her books (tesseract, anyone?). "100 Years of Solitude," "The Time Traveler's Wife," "Pulp Fiction," "Memento," "Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban," "Peace Like a River,"...I could go on and on.

But I'm also a schedule person. I make to do lists. I set up a schedule for myself each day. I like meeting deadlines.

I've stopped wearing my watch, which I used to be almost obsessively compulsive about. The battery needs to be changed and at first I just didn't get around to going to get a new one. The Attorney is in a similar predicament. He is attempting to read "100 Years of Solitude" in Spanish. When his watch stopped, he decided he would not get it fixed until he finished the book. I decided I wouldn't get a new watch battery until we get our referral for the Baby.

Two years is a long time. Two years and 3 months to be exact. Longer than that really. Those seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and years keep marching on. But, like something out of L'Engle or Garcia Marquez, they also flow around me, along with the other 30 something years of my life. I'd rather float in them than march along right now.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Wacky Web Wednesday

I admit it: I really like alliteration. If I have to title something and I can find a way to make something alliterative work (in proper context, of course), then I will. I also really like the Ellen show, and I think she does this on Wednesdays, so I could be influenced by that as well. Hence, a new segment here on the blog: Wacky Web Wednesday.

The Attorney loves the Internets. He spends a lot of time finding new funny things, which he then forces, I mean, encourages me to watch. 9 times out of 10, I enjoy them as well. Here are 2 recent finds that I have enjoyed:

The Font Conference
During my sabbatical from the world of education, I worked at my church. Part of my job was publications (newsletters, Sunday bulletin, etc.), so I picked up a smattering of graphic design experience and learned a thing or two about fonts. So maybe I find this funnier than I should.



Feist on Sesame Street

I like this song and I like the Muppets, so what could be better? Also, the Attorney and I enjoy changing the lyrics to songs and singing them to our animals. Imagine how much fun we'll have when the Baby arrives! She'll hear/watch this one for sure!



Monday, July 28, 2008

Summer Reading

I thought I'd do a lot more reading this summer. Actually, I thought I would do a lot more of a lot of things! But, as the song says, "those lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer" took over and I have been a serious bum for most of the last 2 months. Not a total bum, but definitely on the lazy end of the spectrum.

I lifted this Big Read list from the Reverend's blog. As an English major and librarian, I am happy that I am an above average reader according to their (rather low) standard. However, as an English major and a librarian, I am also slightly mortified by how many of these books I have not read! So, I'm on a quest. I know I won't get through them all this summer, but I am looking at this list as my required reading for a while. I purchased a nice Jane Austen anthology yesterday at Barnes and Noble, so I'm going to start there. (I'm also inspired by the t-rif Masterpiece Complete Jane Austen productions I've been watching on Sunday nights this summer on PBS.) Since the number of books I have not read is high, I'm definitely open to suggestions about what to read after Jane Austen.

I'm also open to suggestions for beach reads as I am heading to Florida in mid-August.

To quote the Reverend "The Big Read reckons that the average adult has only read 6 of the top 100 books they've printed."

(Books I've read are in bold. Books I've read part of are starred. Following the Reverend's lead, I also noted if I had seen the movie.)

1 Pride and Prejudice – Jane Austen (seen the movie & mini-series)
2 The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien
3 Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte
4 Harry Potter series - JK Rowling
5 To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
6 The Bible*
7 Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
8 Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell
9 His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman
10 Great Expectations - Charles Dickens
11 Little Women - Louisa M Alcott
12 Tess of the D'Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy
13 Catch 22 - Joseph Heller
14 Complete Works of Shakespeare
15 Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier
16 The Hobbit - JRR Tolkien
17 Birdsong - Sebastian Faulks
18 Catcher in the Rye - JD Salinger
19 The Time Traveller's Wife - Audrey Niffenegger
20 Middlemarch - George Eliot
21 Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell
22 The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald
23 Bleak House - Charles Dickens
24 War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
25 The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams
26 Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh
27 Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky*
28 Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck
29 Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
30 The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame
31 Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy
32 David Copperfield - Charles Dickens
33 Chronicles of Narnia - CS Lewis
34 Emma - Jane Austen (seen the movie)
35 Persuasion - Jane Austen (seen the Masterpiece version)
36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe - CS Lewis (not sure why this is separate from the Chronicles)
37 The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini
38 Captain Corelli's Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres
39 Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden (seen the movie)
40 Winnie the Pooh - AA Milne
41 Animal Farm - George Orwell
42 The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
43 One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
44 A Prayer for Owen Meaney - John Irving
45 The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins
46 Anne of Green Gables - LM Montgomery
47 Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy
48 The Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood
49 Lord of the Flies - William Golding
50 Atonement - Ian McEwan (seen the movie)
51 Life of Pi - Yann Martel
52 Dune - Frank Herbert
53 Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons
54 Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen (seen movie)
55 A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth
56 The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon
57 A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens*
58 Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon
60 Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
61 Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
62 Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov
63 The Secret History - Donna Tartt
64 The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold
65 Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas
66 On The Road - Jack Kerouac
67 Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy
68 Bridget Jones' Diary - Helen Fielding (seen the movie)
69 Midnight's Children - Salman Rushdie
70 Moby Dick - Herman Melville*
71 Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens (seen the musical)
72 Dracula - Bram Stoker (seen the movie)
73 The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett
74 Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson
75 Ulysses - James Joyce
76 The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath
77 Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome
78 Germinal - Emile Zola
79 Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray
80 Possession - AS Byatt
81 A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens
82 Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
83 The Color Purple - Alice Walker
84 The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro (seen movie)
85 Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert
86 A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry
87 Charlotte's Web - EB White
88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom
89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
90 The Faraway Tree Collection - Enid Blyton
91 Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
92 The Little Prince - Antoine De Saint-Exupery-
93 The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
94 Watership Down - Richard Adams*
95 A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
96 A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
97 The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas (seen the movie)
98 Hamlet - William Shakespeare
99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl
100 Les Miserables - Victor Hugo (seen the musical)